It’s OK to Stop

Vincent Vicari
1 min readMar 4, 2023

It’s been some time since I last wrote anything of substance. Why? I simply didn’t want to write. That was the realization. And I was fine with it.

In fact, it felt good to simply not do something because I truly didn’t feel like doing it.

Was it laziness? No. I did many other things instead.

Was it writer’s block? No. I had some ideas.

What it was, was simply acknowledging I didn’t want to. And this is the lesson: if you’re not required to do something, and you don’t need to do something, then don’t.

It’s OK to walk away. That reprieve is personal permission to simply stop.

I know I tie most things to leadership, so here is the lesson for leaders of all kinds: acknowledge when something is enough.

Recognizing you want to stop or simply not do something is human. This also is a perfect example of self-awareness and personal growth.

We’ll all do things as we want and need to. But it’s perfectly fine to give ourselves permission to stop.



Vincent Vicari

Writings on Personal Development, Leadership, and Creativity.